Hey May! I haven't dropped you a line in a while so I thought I would check in. I hope you had a great Thanksgiving. It sounds like you are doing great. H is definitely playing the blame shifting game (probably due to a guilty conscience) with the "I wasn't invited back into the MB". Take it in stride. If you could emotionally handle the rejection, the advice about initiating might be good in your case - as long as there isn't a PA. Stay strong and keep the focus girl! As far as your kiddos go, as hard as it is, try not to think of the future and what-ifs. Just keep being a great mom and take it one day at a time.
Thanks Kristin-- been thinking about you too over this past week! Hope you had a great Thanksgiving-- what did you end up doing? Hugs back to you!!
Me (45) H (41) M:13 T:17 D8 and D10 8/19 find out about H's long-distance EA 12/19 H tells me it is actually a PA and has been for 2 years 6/20 H back in contact with AP. Trying to detach.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.