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Here's a wonderful letter I received from a dear woman who attended the seminar in April. Isn't life great?
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Dear Michele:

I'm very moved by what's happening in my life right now.
Jason, my husband, keeps responding to my changes, so I keep making them.
We're on track to be a couple again in time for the May anniversary of "our first kiss" 17 years ago. The way we're behaving, it's going to be a romantic anniversary.

I'm just amazed. Moved, astounded and humble, too.
And you know, we were bitter, resentful and estranged in
December when I picked up your book.

I would NEVER in a million years have been willing to soften first
if your words hadn't reached something (sensible) in me.
I would NEVER have been able to open my heart. I was
hurt, righteous, adamant and miserable not very long ago.
We were both depressed and sinking.

Your book opened my eyes and offered me a lifeline. I'm not kidding!
I didn't believe you at first, but I had to laugh as I did the exercises
and saw I was being stubborn. I softened. I stopped accusing.
I shut up and dressed up and attended to myself -- what did I have
to lose?

Your book and your messageboard guided me. I would have
retaliated and initiated an affair if you hadn't told me I could
save my M. I'm proud to say I listened and learned.

I'm doing things differently now, and not out of desperation
and pain, but because I want to thank my H for being
nice to me. Yes, nice! The MEAN guy who stonewalled me
for months DANCED with me at a party last Saturday and winked
"let's go home early."

And he came home with with his cheery, friendly,
no-longer-resentful, no-longer-grudge-holding,
no-longer-self-pitying wife.

Right now I'm totally absorbed by DB -- I gave my DR to my sister.
I feel like the missing piece of the puzzle of how relationships
work has fallen into place in my life and I want to apply these
ideas all over the place.

Once again, thanks from the heart, and smiles from a
satisfied customer.

Love,

Sue


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