This one is from Basil. ******************* Dear Michele, I would like to thank you for your help. My wife and I are getting along better than ever. We are no longer in therapy. It took me a while to start regaining my wife's trust again. Our relationship is still developing wonderfully. I learn something new from her everyday. She tells me she loves me before she goes to work everyday. She often calls me for no other reason than to see how my day has gone. I am extremely happy. When we started having problems, I truly thought that I couldn't save our marriage; but now I know it can be done. I no longer take my wife for granted, and I thank God for everyday that I am given to spend with her. Thank you and the members of the messageboard for your support. God Bless you all!