Well I have visions of one flat on its back, waving its nasty little legs in the air?
Oops, looks like I had b!tch for breakfast again
I agree with the anger thing though, far easier to just be angry at someone than admit your part to play. I can't help thinking that when all is quiet, the feelings of guilt must eat them alive.
Any idea which is on it's back kicking and what is the other doing?
I sort of doubt any feelings of guilt eating them alive but at this point I probably can't guess how they are feeling. At one point I thought I knew how he was feeling and could empathise with him. Since he is only angry now I have no idea where his head is at, but I'm not really sure he does either.
Ellie wrote him a very caring and great post on my other thread to him but I bet he didn't take any of it in.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Shees! You guys have been busy today. It's funny that earlier on I was looking for some fairy dust and a crystal ball but a can of Raid sounds pretty good right now.
That realization that WAS isn't all we thought they were is pretty stunning, isn't it? (((((((Pam)))))))
I don't know if you ever read "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson, but there is a section that applies here in a smaller way (in most cases) than he illustrates. It's called "The Gift." It's about a woman abused ber her H and then we wants to leave and she wants him to stay. Anyway he leaves and she is distraught but in the end, after self-realization she finds that she has been handed a HUGE GIFT by his leaving. I think we all get that to some degree when we find the GIFT of our true selves again.
