Pam- I have never posted to you before.....but I saw all the BS that was going on, and that's all it was BS.
This place is a public forum, so I guess to expect them not to post here contradicts that. However, it is apparent that your xh and J are trying to show you in a different light, maybe in hopes to take this away from you too.
Don't let them affect you. No matter what is going on legally between the two of you, it has no place on this boards. We have all acted/reacted to our situations in not so healthy ways. It's human nature and I think most of us have done things that we would never post about. No big deal. We are concerned with supporting each other.....no matter what......and you will still continue to get the support you no matter who says what about you.
That woman took your H, don't let her take this place away from you. Let them be hateful and spiteful, let them threaten you......and let it roll right off your back because I don't think any one of us gives a rat's @ss as to what they have to say or whine about.
((((((((HUGS TO YOU)))))))))))
Be strong.......and let them wallow in it if they so choose.
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007
Thank you very much for this post. It means a whole lot to see the BB rally behind me when this happened.
I actually did post about the stuff she posted about. The van incident was over a year and a half ago when I was trying to come off my Zoloft incorrectly.
There isn't much about me the BB doesn't know.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
I too think that they are having a problem moving on with their lives. They must have so much guilt at what they did TO YOU (not you to them) that they must keep trying to justify it. Boy did they pick the wrong place to do that. They need to post on that OW site that tries to justify ADULTERY. We are all on your side here. I agree with Tony. Do not reply to them. They will NEVER get it!! You have your whole life ahead of you. LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST. They will continue to make each other miserable the rest of their lives. Don't let them hurt you any more. We all need this to be a safe place to come to. If our ex's read these messages I guess they aren't so happy as they want us to believe.
God Bless!!
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Yes, it happened for a reason. Just like when my wasband contacted me recently. I figure it happened so I could show me that it just wasn't a big deal. That I was done.
