Children and Boundarys? 2

[LH19]

Girls, girls, girls I lovem!

[bttrfly]

that's hilarious, Dawn!

[bttrfly]

"I love 'em I need 'em Can't live without 'em no... "
come on, you sang that as you read it. You know you did !

[LH19]

I actually like the David Lee Roth version better.

[OnlyBent]

See this is why I don’t get why people here we’ll one less hate 3% man. It gives a complete roadmap i how to handle dating.

I let G handle this one.

I'll add my thoughts on the book.

Unfortunately the book is written by a complete a**hole. Anyone who refers to women as cumdumpsters is a fkwit of the highest order. His opinions on guns I don't agree with (but then I'm not American), and he is never wrong and just an all round sh!t bloke.

That said, what the book teaches does work. And I agree with LH that they aren't rules, they are guidelines/mindset. The book basically says have a life (GAL), don't make one women your everything when you don't really know her, have an abundance mentality, do no waste your time on anyone who does not show you interest in return, don't be needy, be confident and fun and cheeky.

I don't see any of that mindset being a bad thing, unfortunately it is good material presented by a horrible person.

[bttrfly]

So OB I guess it's a case of focus on the message, not the messenger?

Problem is, one also has to consider the source.

[LH19]

That said, what the book teaches does work.

This is all the matters. I would bet 50% of the authors of you favorite books are a-holes. Like MWD says “do what works”.

[OnlyBent]

I don’t disagree with you LH, I’ve had a hell of a 2 years and now I’m dating a 10/10 amazing woman, and a lot of it can be credited to what I learnt from that book.

But I can understand why some on here hate the book…because if it’s author

[LH19]

Truthfully Bent I get that. I’m talking about the people don’t like it because it comes off as gamey. Sure it would be great if everyone was born with game. I would argue that as difficult as it is to date now your game better be tight.

Good for you man! Go back some day and read what I use to post to you.

[OnlyBent]

Truthfully Bent I get that. I’m talking about the people don’t like it because it comes off as gamey. Sure it would be great if everyone was born with game. I would argue that as difficult as it is to date now your game better be tight.

Good for you man! Go back some day and read what I use to post to you.

Yeah I can vouch that it’s not gamey, it genuinely is mindset, and to put it succinctly it’s about valuing yourself. Man or woman.

You’ll no doubt remember that I have a good memory and I remember everything you said to me and it was all true and helpful, hard to see at the time, but my life is amazing now.

One thing you got wrong, that is was very unlikely the OM would get to stepdad status, that’s looking pretty certain, but out of my control, so meh.