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I know I said I would butt out but I just wanted to make a point here about hockey guy. If you would have stuck to your word and were authentic with him you very likely would have gotten what you wanted eventually. It’s just like DBing it takes a lot of self control.

Make this new guy be a man and ask you out. You don’t need another text buddy.

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Originally Posted by LH19
I know I said I would butt out but I just wanted to make a point here about hockey guy. If you would have stuck to your word and were authentic with him you very likely would have gotten what you wanted eventually. It’s just like DBing it takes a lot of self control.

Make this new guy be a man and ask you out. You don’t need another text buddy.

Just had to make a point, huh?

Pretty typical LH. Can’t bite his tongue. The master of “I told you so”

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Back to silence 😂

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Originally Posted by LH19
Back to silence 😂

Of course. You said what you just couldn’t but your tongue on. Silence until the next time

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Hello Ginger

Please start a new thread.

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I’m not working New Year’s Day, but I did get invited to a party. We shall see if I decide to go .
Go!

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My friend has taste in unavailable men like I do.
"Like I do." Why is that?

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I can’t see myself back on dating apps. They were seriously soul crushing for me. Degrading almost.
I thought you've had success OLD?

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I’d rather do more activities and meet people organically. The world is open again. Join some clubs for activities that enjoy.
Definitely preferable to meet in person organically.

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I have hard questions I need to ask myself.
What questions?

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I think it is important that someone I date is someone that eventually will include me in other areas in his life.
Um...yeah.

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I don’t think that’s going to happen here and if it does, it won’t be for a long time.
Why wouldn't it happen where you are? Is there something specific about the area, or just based on past results?


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