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Re: Maybe, maybe not LH19 #2939327 11/16/22 06:54 PM
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OP Ginger1 Member G Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 6,826 Likes: 156	Originally Posted by LH19 Originally Posted by Ginger1 Originally Posted by LH19 Uuuummmm I was being serious. He has a big Italian Roman Catholic family he spends his Christmas with. He is not in the same boat as I am. Well would one more for dinner be that big of a deal? How many women have you invited over for a major holiday with your family when casually dating for a short period of time ?

Re: Maybe, maybe not Ginger1 #2939331 11/16/22 07:24 PM
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LH19 Member L Joined: Feb 2017 Posts: 9,227 Likes: 309	Well I have young kids if I didn't I would for sure.

Re: Maybe, maybe not Ginger1 #2939336 11/16/22 07:53 PM
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OP Ginger1 Member G Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 6,826 Likes: 156	No, thats weird .

Re: Maybe, maybe not Ginger1 #2939337 11/16/22 08:06 PM
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LH19 Member L Joined: Feb 2017 Posts: 9,227 Likes: 309	Originally Posted by Ginger1 No, thats weird . Well can't you two get together and exchange gifts under the mistletoe?

Re: Maybe, maybe not Ginger1 #2939348 11/16/22 09:22 PM
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bttrfly Member B Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 6,119 Likes: 408 New England	as an Italian Roman Catholic, if his family is anything like the older generation in mine, one does not bring someone casual. M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16 "Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver

Re: Maybe, maybe not bttrfly #2939351 11/16/22 10:54 PM
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OP Ginger1 Member G Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 6,826 Likes: 156	Originally Posted by bttrfly as an Italian Roman Catholic, if his family is anything like the older generation in mine, one does not bring someone casual. Precisely. And I wouldn’t feel comfortable.

Re: Maybe, maybe not Ginger1 #2939352 11/16/22 11:10 PM
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LH19 Member L Joined: Feb 2017 Posts: 9,227 Likes: 309	Have him over to your side of the family. Explain to your dad how you’re FWB.

Re: Maybe, maybe not Ginger1 #2939355 11/17/22 12:08 AM
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bttrfly Member B Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 6,119 Likes: 408 New England	Originally Posted by Ginger1 Originally Posted by bttrfly as an Italian Roman Catholic, if his family is anything like the older generation in mine, one does not bring someone casual. Precisely. And I wouldn’t feel comfortable. which is even more important. M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16 "Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver

Re: Maybe, maybe not LH19 #2939358 11/17/22 12:44 AM
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OP Ginger1 Member G Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 6,826 Likes: 156	Originally Posted by LH19 Have him over to your side of the family. Explain to your dad how you’re FWB. Do you get off on being such a douche to me ?

Re: Maybe, maybe not Ginger1 #2939360 11/17/22 12:51 AM
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LH19 Member L Joined: Feb 2017 Posts: 9,227 Likes: 309	Just spitballing some ideas based on the reality of the situation during the holiday season.

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