As far as being attractive, she is a pretty lady. I liked her person, her business acumen, drive, intelligence too. That is pretty attractive. As far as her in Hawaii, she was very stressed on family dynamics. That led her to not get hair done ( she needs it straightened ), no make up like she used to. The financials were hard too, and so there were many stress factors on our marriage, on top of the daughters issues.
I tell you, the step daughter was fire the whole time.. I have never dealt with a kid so angry towards me.
It is said that second marriages with children from the first have a 70% D rate. Many have this blended family fantasy but 99 times out of 100 the kids are going to come first regardless of what the truth of it all is. If both you and D are in life threatening situations and W can save only one of you, it’s not going to be you. Marriage comes and goes, which we all see here, but children are for life.
I’m not saying it’s D’s fault or the only reason, just saying that the happily blended family is often very much a fantasy. Ginger is not doing this on purpose but in the end waiting until D is 18 before doing a LTR may be the very best thing she could do to have that R succeed.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
Oh, ginger is not blending any families. I will not be living with a guy until she is off to college and we all know I’ll likely not even have boyfriend to blend with, lol.
It’s be me and my daughter living with no other man for 15 years. We are going to finish out her childhood that way.
Although she gives permission for all of us to move into my NHL player’s crushes home and she has no issues with calling him daddy 😂 Sadly, his GF is the hottest woman I think I have ever seen, so this is very unlikely to happen
