Let’s just say his interest level is high. And he is extremely genuine . He will be away for a few weeks and D is away. I don’t think accepting a date 3 days later is going to make or break or us.
He has been separated for a few months. They had been separated before that as well. It’s a short term marriage and no children came from it. She was a manipulative binge drinker and abusive when she drank. He was done after giving her another chance . Papers are almost signed. He closes on his new place tomorrow.( he was not living with her in the meantime )
We had a candid open talk last night . He’s not the “I’m free woohoo type” but we both agreed that he does need his time single and to take a breather from everything . We agreed to be friends that kiss, lol. I have decided I am not going to have sex with him and I told him as much and he’s completely understanding . He’s seriously kind sweet and empathetic. We know timing timing stinks.
Anyways, for the men out there. Does he have a good career stay fit and dress nice, and drive a decent car ? Yes. Ia that attractive ? Sure. But the most attractive part of his is his genuinity, not trying to be a certain way because he thinks that’s what women wants. He comes as his self . And we can sniff out when men are trying to be what they think a woman wants to be rather than just being themselves . Vulnerability , honesty, good conversation that goes beyond the surface level. Very attractive. His love for his family is as well.
I truly and honestly can't believe that you wrote this after one date and a phone call. I am flabbergasted. If I had a nickel............... Go easy on her MLCH.
Cadet I am not blowing it off I take her accusations very seriously.
Do you trust her opinion ?
Do you trust what anyone else reads in your words ???
Maybe you could , since you seem to be taking these allegations seriously, trust a perspective that may not fit with your current one, and read back through some of these threads and try to see it from a different perspective...
"Work on yourself" shouldn't involve someone else doing it for you....You gain nothing from having others do that for you....
You can give a man a fish and he eats for a day....or teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime....
LOL. Mach it's all good. I can't change how BF feels about me. I understand men trying to approve attraction comes off as "Gamey". Again, I don't understand why that is so taboo to improve? But like a humpback camel smoking a cigarette it is what it is.
When G-money isn't mad at me she will vouge for me that I am not a player.