You, LH, You with your odds and your numbers and your freaking stats.
Yes I like statistics because I need proof just not folklore.
Originally Posted by bttrfly
Adding something to a repertoire absolutely means you are playing someone.
Ok so I read something today that made a woman feel good so I am just suppose to ignore it.
Originally Posted by bttrfly
Is anything freaking real with you?
I am 100% natural.
Originally Posted by bttrfly
I get you've been hurt man, haven't we all? Until and unless one is willing to be 100% honest and authentic, the returns one will get one the relationship front will be less than 100%.
A have a date tonight and am going to a concert. If I kiss her on the head that taints the entire night I planned?
Originally Posted by bttrfly
Stop the walls and the games and get freaking real or go to the Sundowner.
No walls all real. I'll be a the downer when my buddy is in town.
I dated within a few months of my ex leaving. BUT I had been DBing my marriage for years, had reconciled once before, my ex was a three time offender, and I was completely sure that I would never take hm back under ANY circumstances. I was done and really healed at that time - I had peace in my heart that I had done everything possible for my marriage, and peace that I did not want him back. Just because it took another year to complete the legal process of a divorce, I was more than ready to date and I did.
Some people's divorce drag out for a long time for reasons other than attachment. And some people went through the necessary emotional process before their ex left. I'm not saying it's common, necessarily - and it's a reason why you have to assess whether someone is truly done with their marriage or not.
This ^^^^
To the outside world...for me, the perception was that things moved quickly....
In reality...
I was 30 months post bomb, and had been ready for a while.....
The only "newness" was that information, to other people....
LH....
Keep going and you are gonna get your eyes scratched out by one of these women here....: )
I'm honestly unsure at this point if you are just randomly saying stupid Schidt to rile them up, or if you truly are having a hard time equating your version of what a Woman wants, to what they actually want...
???
Either way, I'm fine with it. Just seems to be a daily watch for the carnage from the train wreck.
B-lady is correct. The Forehead kiss isn't a trick or a ploy....
The difference between it being real and being a trick, involve being deeper than a "kiddie pool" with a massive hole in it....
And until you know the difference.....
I feel that your frustrations in the dating world are self induced.....
Mach half the $hit you write doesn't make any sense to me. The part I understood, sometimes I like to rile them up and sometimes I speak the truth......
It's like swimming in a bathtub that has an upside down hole in it lol.
You, LH, You with your odds and your numbers and your freaking stats.
Yes I like statistics because I need proof just not folklore.
Here is the problem with statistics and I will try to paraphraze the famous moderator that came before me. (J3B)
The odds can be a million to one against you but if you are the one then its 100%.
And the same works in reverse, they can be 999,9999 out of a million for you and you can still be the one left over.
I think the point was no matter what the statistics be the ONE.
I hear you cadet and Andy P loved to use that when we gave statistics on 5th marriages.
Remember this insurance companies and casinos which are billion dollar industries base everything on one thing and one thing only Statistics. Not feelings or folklore.
You, LH, You with your odds and your numbers and your freaking stats.
Yes I like statistics because I need proof just not folklore.
Stop analyzing and go with the flow.
SHUT OFF YOUR MONKEY MIND.
Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by bttrfly
Adding something to a repertoire absolutely means you are playing someone.
Ok so I read something today that made a woman feel good so I am just suppose to ignore it.
YES. If it never occurred to you naturally, then YES YES YES
Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by bttrfly
Is anything freaking real with you?
I am 100% natural.
I make my living doing marketing. Natural doesn't mean real.
Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by bttrfly
I get you've been hurt man, haven't we all? Until and unless one is willing to be 100% honest and authentic, the returns one will get on the relationship front will be less than 100%.
A have a date tonight and am going to a concert. If I kiss her on the head that taints the entire night I planned?
If it's calculated to get a desired result then it's MANIPULATION! NOT AUTHENTICITY.
Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by bttrfly
Stop the walls and the games and get freaking real or go to the Sundowner.
No walls all real. I'll be a the downer when my buddy is in town.
BF it's all good. Put yourself out there.
In time LH, in good time. Unless John Cusack wants to help me pack and move between now and the end of the month. Otherwise, I'm benched for the next little bit.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
You, LH, You with your odds and your numbers and your freaking stats.
Yes I like statistics because I need proof just not folklore.
Here is the problem with statistics and I will try to paraphraze the famous moderator that came before me. (J3B)
The odds can be a million to one against you but if you are the one then its 100%.
And the same works in reverse, they can be 999,9999 out of a million for you and you can still be the one left over.
I think the point was no matter what the statistics be the ONE.
I hear you cadet and Andy P loved to use that when we gave statistics on 5th marriages.
Remember this insurance companies and casinos which are billion dollar industries base everything on one thing and one thing only Statistics. Not feelings or folklore.
Insurance companies are not in the business of trying to find love.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
Mach half the $hit you write doesn't make any sense to me. The part I understood, sometimes I like to rile them up and sometimes I speak the truth......
It's like swimming in a bathtub that has an upside down hole in it lol.
Maybe that's the disconnect....
And it isn't that you don't understand me that is the concern...
It's that you either don't understand the female brain in all of it's beauty....
Or you don't care, and are just passing time with firing them up.
And truth ....
Your truth ?
Their truth ?
Statistically true ?
Because statistics can be manipulated into any conclusion that you want to have, or make it..
Hell, 50% of the Women posting to you today on this thread, think you are an idiot....
