Oh - and keep an eye on what he's taking, don't let him either walk off with stuff you want, or leave a bunch of his stuff behind for you to have to store.
An easy way to do a household inventory is to just go around and take pictures of everything including just opening closets and drawers and taking a shot of that.
Don't be shocked at all by what is taken and what is left. Or what they may suddenly be attached to. I recall one poster here talking about how her ex took the steps to a shed if I recall correctly. I ended up with just 1 lamp in the entire house.
As bttrfly says, it's all marital assets (other than gifts or many types of inheritance).
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
Just caught up and I’m so proud of you for putting your foot down. Wow, the way he speaks to you sounds so much like my H. I agree the chain lock would be a good idea, as well as much of the advice you have received from the crew.
All I can say is try to accept it will feel weird as he leaves. And try to distract yourself. Hugs to you! You got this!
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