Yeah I don’t know why she does that. I have no choice but to think she’s testing me to see if I’m still “on the hook” I am starting to feel in my gut that she’s been telling nothing but lies and boy is she gonna get bad when I don’t let her move in with me and her private life gets ruined. I have some hard times ahead for sure.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
Steve, not going to lie. She's better at this than you are. Until you get into IC, back off, and quit interacting with her so much, you'll continue to struggle
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
I know this is easy when my heart isn’t on the line, but I’d be running the other way - as fast as possible.
She has major issues treating you the way she has and then being provoctive like that. Of course she’s checking if you’re still on the hook. Keep pulling away. The logical part of your brain knows she is ****ing with you, but your heart is likely to cave again and again. And as soon as she sees you get a glimmer of hope, she will get what she wants and then crush you again. And every time that cycle happens, future reconciliation becomes less likely.
Do the 180. Give her nothing. And not as a technique to get her back! Give her nothing simply because YOU DESERVE way better than someone who treats you like that.
Time to start listening to your head and ignoring your heart. She can only keep hurting you for as long as you let her.
Yep not a single word from me since last night, the more I think about it the more it enrages me how just messed up, disrespectful, disgusting and morally corrupt she has been to me, our kids and her family. I honestly sometimes pretend that she is dead, that helps me when I miss her. I definately have a bad attachment issue. I got no reason to be with this type of messed up person other than the ones I create for myself. Im not in love with her, im in love with what she could have been and obviously never was.
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T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
Hi Steve_, I hear ya. It's easier to respect the WASs who complain about their partners' behaviors, then leave, then find someone else--even if they weren't as clear that the relationship was falling apart as the LBS wishes they were. A WWS with multiple affairs is a jagged little pill to swallow.
She texted me today a letter from AT&T saying someone tried to use her username and password to get into her account and asked if it was me. I just said
"someone tried to hack you, if I cared what your doing I wouldnt have let you take me off the account with the "i gotta upgrade my watch" excuse, you never upgraded your watch, im not dumb, Ive been as cool as I can be with all this, I just want you to be happy, I gotta go back to work now, see ya"
She wanted a fight, I didnt give her one.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
