Here's short version of things as they are. Not back with XW and happy with that. Been in a few Rs past year and two. Now I'm wondering why am I a magnet for people who have a lots of issues. And I started studies at university of applied studies. Becoming a nurse which is just a step towards psychotherapy studies.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri, wb. Sounds like you are doing relatively well all things considered. I wouldn't say that you are a magnet for people with lots of issues as much as lots of people have lots of issues. IE, if you are going to deal with people then you are going to deal with people with issues. Either you learn to deal with that, or you find yourself a desert island and avoid all contact with others.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Steve. Thanks buddy. Things good indeed. There's a point in your statement but in mine too. The latest person I dated had a history of abusive R. Before that the exact same thing. It would be nice to meet a person without trauma and drama... I think it is a NGS thing. That's the best I can come up with.
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Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
I think it is a NGS thing. That's the best I can come up with.