You are not frustrating anyone who is reading your postings. Try to remember, it will take as long as it takes for you to get to the other side. Some get there quicker and others need to take things a bit slower. Please do not compare your journey w/others when it comes to detaching because each and every person has to deal w/their grief in their own way and on their on time schedule.
Take however long it takes for you to get to the other side...this is a marathon and not a sprint and you are further along than you think.
Last edited by job; 07/08/2012:21 PM. Reason: added link to new thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
