-having a hard time with my ex dating all these women. Why does he get to be happy when he’s the one who inflicted so much pain to our family??
-my downfall continues to be R talks with him where he literally ignores me then I end up feeling worse than before. I’m just scared if I stop trying / talking about it our marriage will just be a thing of the past and he will never try to reconcile and just be stubborn and continue his happy little bachelor life without his family
-having a hard time with my ex dating all these women. Why does he get to be happy when he’s the one who inflicted so much pain to our family??
-my downfall continues to be R talks with him where he literally ignores me then I end up feeling worse than before. I’m just scared if I stop trying / talking about it our marriage will just be a thing of the past and he will never try to reconcile and just be stubborn and continue his happy little bachelor life without his family
How do you know he is happy?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
I mean I don’t know he’s happy but it’s just an observation. He has a new little house that he keeps decorating / doing work to. Making it so permanent. He did admit he was drinking more than ever at one point after divorce and that his antidepressant wasn’t working for him. But other than that being 40 single sleeping with whomever he wants not having to answer to a wife. He’s the one who left he got what he wanted why wouldn’t he be ecstatic?
Im Left to clean up the pieces and be a single mother that I would have never chosen this life alone. I wish he would just wake up and realize we could make it work and be happy again. He will never take his wall down it seems.
