LMAO! I’m sure I’m in the minority but I never thought Greg Brady was all that cute, but I was into cowboys.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Greg Brady is a d-bag......bahaaaa! It was great to put faces to out on-line persona's. You all are amazing people!
Not much to report. Had date night on Saturday, had the Doc's son yesterday as she was at the hospital with her XH and his family. We had a sleep over at the Doc's house last night and today I take the girls back to their mom's.
The Doc's husband is still hanging on. He was care flighted to a new hospital that was fully equipped to care for his needs. He has had a large pump place in some artery up by his collar bone that is supposed to help the left side of his heart fire and I think he is on medicine for his right side. Still vented and are just waiting to see if his body will start to respond.
Well she has not pawned them off on me when it is not my weekend but I help out a ton during the week.
Financially I just feel as though I have no leverage and if she has no money and I stick to my guns what happens to my daughters?
It feels as though the responsible party carries the burden.
She is just so all over the place. I sent her a text yesterday about some shoes I bought our oldest for her choir performance on Friday. She never responded. I just don't understand why she can't respond. Same with an email I sent her this morning. This is kid stuff, it's not personal matters of the heart.
I give her some money early and then she does this stuff. I know I shouldn't expect anything and I don't do it for that reason but I mean geez come on. Maybe a little self awareness?
Doc said they were going to try to extabate him this morning. He is still on 24 hr dialysis and had some large pump put in through some blood vessel by his right collar bone. Still in icu, I think this is now almost 2 weeks.
Thanks! A few days ago she almost broke down. She is not an emotional person, very Type A and very put together so to almost see her break told me it is really weighing on her.
In other news the XW broke her silence today regarding a couple of texts I sent her then asked if I get paid on Friday so she knows when she will be getting her CS. I have come to realize that her not responding to me has nothing do with anything that I am doing but rather she only reaches out when she needs something.
When I dropped my youngest off at her place last night my youngest pointed out to me that her BF's car was there. It was there on Sunday when I dropped them off as well however he still stays upstairs and never comes down to introduce himself.
I have come to realize that her not responding to me has nothing do with anything that I am doing but rather she only reaches out when she needs something.
That's exactly the same thing my exW does as well. I don't have to deal with CS money, but she only reaches out when she needs something. She is hot and cold on responding to texts, and I only send ones about kids. For someone who said they wanted an amicable co-parenting relationship, they're doing all the things that don't lead to that.
It's nothing to do with you. It's all about her and what she wants and is only thinking about herself. So zero expectations as always. I just try to handle all the business with my kids when they're with me and rarely ever reach out to her.
It could be so much better, but hey, this is what they wanted
