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Dallas is a little chilly right now and she has her son that weekend so we will only get 1 night together alone.

She is not a big jewelry person, wears earrings that she makes homemade, no rings, no bracelets but she does wear a watch. She also does not paint her toenails or fingers either. She is very low maintenance that way but makes up for it in other ways at her favorite Med Spa. She is the Doc that signs for their samples so she gets their services at cost.


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Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9
Physical Touch and Acts of Service.

This is the perfect opportunity for role reversal. You play the doctor and give her an injection she'll never forget.

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What about events? Does she like going to stuff?

Is there a fashion show where both you can get dressed up and go? Murder Mystery dinner? Cirque de Soleil performance? Mavs game (is she into sports?... or you saving that for a proposal on camera smile

Is there something unconventional? I remember we had this convo about the partners to like some edge... so be a bit edgy and dodge some of the conventional stuff...


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lol...….no proposals on camera! Her sister will be in town so looking at events that are happening. We just got a hotel room for New Years so that wouldn't be anything new


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How about you just cook her a nice romantic dinner. Cater to her a bit.

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I can do that......I would have to clean my house and wash my sheets smile

We have not got to spend a ton of time alone with each other because of her XH getting sick and not being able to take her son. I was also out of town for a funeral so I have only seen her once, for 3 hours, on Sunday at the Super Bowl party in 1.5 weeks.

Now to think of a gift for her.


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a planner with a note that you want to give her the gift of time and hope you can together block out alone time throughout the year.

but what do i know ...


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HAHA.....she is tough to buy for so I need to think of something. We are doing dinner at my house on 2/15 since 2/14 is a Friday and I don't want to rush around, etc. Her sister will be in town and can watch her son so we will get more time together on Saturday anyways.

I thought about sending some edible items to her office for her and her staff to enjoy.


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The doc called me last not just about and really slightly in tears. Her xh is still in icu and he seemed to be getting better however something happened and they to sedate him and put a tube down his troat so he could breathe. They where able to look at his heart and determine there was no. Blockage but for some reason it's still functioning properly.

I knew something was up because she normally never calls. We discussed what to tell her son and when if he didnt make it through the night, etc. I feel really bad for her little boy. Anyway it's just a bad situation.


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I'm sorry bud. {{{{{J9}}}}


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