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I'm on 2+ years. Our situations/feelings are so alike it's like we are married to the same person. I tell myself that I made it to 32 without this idiot in my life, what is the problem now?

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There was a poster who collected all the stories which ended up in R (I can't remember who though).



Mozza's Success Stories. I typed in the link, but had no luck.


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Mozza's Success Stories. I typed in the link, but had no luck.


https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2581617


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
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Originally Posted by Newbie20
I'm on 2+ years. Our situations/feelings are so alike it's like we are married to the same person. I tell myself that I made it to 32 without this idiot in my life, what is the problem now?


It is great not to be alone, though I am so sorry either of us have similar stories, LOL!

I spent my whole life being codependent and the last couple years thinking I would die if he didn't pick me or love me more than her. I h ave worked SO HARD and am so proud of myself for loving myself more and more and getting my own life. I don' t react as much like I used to. I can own my own feelings.

I have to talk to him this weekend about the work situation. I am trying to really prepare myself ahead of time, not be too emotional, keep it simple, not try to persuade him to see things my way, not going into it thinking it's going to bomb...or succeed.


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Google this:



Nevermind I found it, lots of clicking.

New Thread:

Today is such a hard day

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BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
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