No such thing as too much! You be you and he will be him. If you aren't feeling it, then don't go, but as I said before, it may be that he just isn't a text/phone guy. If I judged Sparky solely on his text/phone personality, it would've been a big fat no for me from the get, but he has a HUGE personality in person with all the jokes and sarcasm I could possibly want. It just doesn't translate well, particularly through text and it is even worse if he's distracted while he's texting.
Me 50, H51 3 adult daughters from XH's first marriage (plus 4 grandkids) Divorce final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 1 adult daughter and bonus daughter-in-law from current H's first marriage
Eh, that conversation has died. Havenít heard from him and I was tired of pulling teeth.
My day began so badly at work today. But Iím going to focus on the highlights of my day.
My coworker told me how great I am at my job, how Iím always positive ( yeah, me!) and Iím just a great person. She also doesnít understand why I am still single, lol.
Then my male coworker, who is my perfect guy, except he is married, was coming out of a room today as I was going towards it and said ďwoah, you are looking good! You are losing weight!Ē And gave me ďeyesĒ and that hand outline of the hour glass figure thing guys do. Now, he knew I was doing keto back when, because we exchanged recipes so he could comment on my weight. And we have that kind of relationship. It felt really good that a person actually noticed, and it is a guy . And one I happen to like. Donít worry folks, Iím not chasing after men. But he is an excellent example of what I should be looking for.
Ive been committed to the gym. And today was the hardest workout Iíve endured yet. Half of the class was a partner workout which I dreaded. But I got myself a partner and we actually came in second place after the guy team, now she is very tall, so Iíll give her about 60% of the credit. My weakness is the treadmill, but I kill it on the rower and strength exercises. I wanted to vomit, but I canít believe how good I did amongst these very fit people. I think Iím getting my mojo back in the gym. My feet arenít even killing me today which is great.
I also hit a new time low, however. I joined tinder. I swore I never would. Lots of guys admittedly looking for an affair partner on there! Some seem half decent. I got over 100 likes in less than 24 hours. Weird. I know what I want in life but right now, Iíd probably settle for an activity partner. There is just all this stuff I want to do, and itís no fun without someone else.
Iím alive. Some days I feel like my soul died. But I know itís not. It does need a little CPR though.
Iím reading the stories on here about everyone is finding what was meant to find them. These people who are coming into your lives and well, giving you this new part of your life again. Giving you hope for love. And I love reading other successes. Givens me an ounce of hope