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LH19 #2880825 01/15/20 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted by LH19
Oh boy! She has no respect for you. Have you asked her to move out?


I did and she said she doesn't want to leave the kids! She said "where will I go?" She wants to have her cake and eat it. I agreed to be bought out so the kids have stability.




She did tell me she feels guilty for breaking up the family.

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Sooooo she goes out on a date and brings a dude home and you what go for a walk around the block? I’m trying to understand the dynamic here.

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that's why I'm wondering if some sort of exposure would shake her out of her mindset?

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Well that’s nice she has a conscious.

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You can’t shake her out of it.

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Originally Posted by LH19
Sooooo she goes out on a date and brings a dude home and you what go for a walk around the block? I’m trying to understand the dynamic here.


She hasn't brought home anyone yet. It was agreed that we would not bring casual dates to the house but who defines what is casual?

What am I supposed to do while I am still at the house when WW decides to bring another man home?

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Originally Posted by LH19
You can’t shake her out of it.



I get that - and I'm not leaving the house unless forced to.

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You tell me dude you agreed to this. I would never agree to share my w with someone if I was married.

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Well then tell her that unless some dude wants a baseball bat to the neck then I wouldn’t bring another dude home.

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Originally Posted by LH19
Well then tell her that unless some dude wants a baseball bat to the neck then I wouldn’t bring another dude home.



I told her he would leave headfirst

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