Thanks AS - haha yeah I am often tempted to reply with a flippant remark like that!!
Yes from a financial side of things, I just don't trust her to do it right. She'll miss something which means both of us might end up worse off than we thought. Or she may end up getting someone else to do it with her, who might sway her into altering things in the agreement so she wins out more than I do, despite promising everything will be 50/50. Maybe that's me being too cynical though!
I guess this is not D proceedings technically. This is just confirming our financial situation. She filed, she wished to sell the house. She is sorting that - booking viewings, etc. There is an element of me protecting myself if I make the first move here.
On the other hand, this is A PART of the bigger picture - my M breaking down and that fact that W says she doesn't love me, want to be with me, etc. It's not what I want. I have not stood in her way so far.
This is why I am confused about what to do.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020