Neff. Not changing my thing. Very tempted to text with a screenshot: "Feeling nostalgic, are we?" But no. But she had removed it right away. So could it been a accident? Yes. But you do have to click several times to make that accident. Keeping it cool
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
Petri, one thing I like to point out, especially to LBHs that end up D'd, is that piecing is no cake walk. My sitches, both in 2005 and 2017, were difficult. But they paled in comparison to the piecing that took place following. So you need to ask yourself: are you up for it? And more importantly, is your EXW up for it? I have to believe that the worst thing possible is to start getting back together only to have her flake out again.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Just donīt feed her monkeys. Let time filter the feelings. The WWs are nuts for a long time. We need to face our actions, itīs a long bumping journey...
We know you have hope. Itīs OK to have it. But manage expectations. You are an old DB wolf by now. You perfectly know that.
So keep shining there P! As usual!
WW H(me): 53 W: 48 T: 27 M: 22 S: 18 Piecing since 03/2016 Saw the light in the storm
Steve. I've been reading on your sitch. We were giving the "homework" about objective which we will work towards. Reading about piecing is the reason why I'm struggling with the decision. I'm not 100% sure myself if I even want this. I'm now going through something new. I've come to terms that we arenot a married couple anymore. All of this now blindsided me. I wasn't expecting anything like this to happen. I was quite fine with the fact that I'm divorced. I still am. And what it comes to XW...she needs to go through the R she has been in now, our M and the R before me. It's a rocky road...
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
I couldn't fight the temptation to ask about the FB thing. I did it with a lots of humor. Here's the answer: "Ah. I tried to modify it and it didn't work so I didn't bother to continue."
Last edited by petri; 08/28/1909:55 AM.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
I couldn't fight the temptation to ask about the FB thing. I did it with a lots of humor.
THAT IS 100% PASSIVE/AGGRESSIVE. You've got to work on that NG stuff. If you're going to confront her about something like that then don't hide behind humor and sarcasm, just ask. But the alpha thing to do would be not to ask, because you don't give a s***.
AS. 2x4 taken. Sarcasm was not included just humor. This is what I wrote: I may have been a little distracted lately but when did we remarry? No passive/aggressive intended. And NG means what exactly? Still not familiar with all those letters...
Last edited by petri; 08/28/1903:39 PM.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
