Maybe I know what to do?

[ozman]

Nothing changed?

[Ready2Change]

f you promised to call, "Sorry, I was enjoying a beer and lost track of time." If you didn't promise to call, "Oh, I was just enjoying a beer. Have fun?"

This is great advise.

Did you promise to call her?

[Ready2Change]

Nothing changed?

It is very important not to let her emotions and/or behavior effect your behavior. You need to do things because you want to or because they are the right thing to do.

[ozman]

No I didn’t promise. I was asking what to tell her when she asks why I’ve always stopped calling when I get home and she’s not there. She figures I would call her to tell her I’m home. I don’t know what to say

I’m trying to figure out if DBing is the right thing. I want her back. BAD. But to put up with this. To not be able to ask. “ hey honey, you screwin other dudes?

Why do we put up with this.

[Ready2Change]

Hi Oz,

Do you know what this means:

The pot on the stove is hot. If you touch the stove, you will get burned. Please do not touch the pot.

[ozman]

How did I touch it? By saying we could both change at once. We’ve done this several times the past 2 weeks. Why was it different today? Because she enjoyed herself around me so much yesterday she got scared?

You said nothing changed?

[Ready2Change]

W:"H, why don't you call me when you get home"
H:"W, It didn't cross my mind. I was taking care of some things"

[Ready2Change]

Touching the pot ==> Going to the pool and watching wife text




W:"OZ, do you want to go to the pool?"
H:"No, I have some things to take care of. You go enjoy yourself"

[ozman]

But she already knows I was just sitting there having a beer after work

[ozman]

Rtc. Didn’t you suggest we go do something together. Like play darts? I’m really confused