I have thought about that L. I mix it up with the texts. They very from beautiful, baby, hot pants, hot lips and sugar tits
She is very much in control of her emotions and it is very hard for her to be loose and vulnerable. Hard to explain but she is not a cryer, not emotional, stoic if I had to describe it. Very touchy feely though. She calls me sexy, handsome, etc. so I guess she does verbalize some things.
Not the serial killer kind but the every day "Sociopath Next Door" type who lacked enough empathy to realize he shouldn't steal from his elderly mother?
Or perhaps he was simply an addict - addicts do that kind of stuff too.
Either way, growing up with an f'ed up dad might trigger some self esteem issues. Usually daddy is the person who first teaches a little girl that she's awesome.
Nonetheless sounds like she handled his a$$ and I'm not suggesting she has any kind of super serious issues because of it. But she may be someone who could use affirmation and support for who she is a little more Ethernet next.
Yeah K her Grandma solicited the help of her and her sister to protect her assets so they went out and got a Lawyer, etc. to remove her father from having the ability to access.
She also said he got into trouble when he was NJ I guess he stole something from the wrong people so they moved from NJ to San Diego. Anyway, there hasn't been many positive things that she has said about him.
The biggest issue was him stealing from his mom. That is really what caused it all but she also mentioned that when she got to be of age he had no idea how to handle her.
I'm neither surprised that you used that (I knew it when I read your message that was one of your "names") or that she didn't like it. Sparky tried that one on me, once. The only thing that kept me from knocking him in the head was that he wasn't close enough for me to reach him when he said it. He also doesn't get away with referring to me as his "old lady". Other than those, though, I'm good to go with the silly, cutesy, whatever nicknames.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Meh....I wouldn't be a fan of that one either, but to each his own. When Sparky calls me one I don't like, I just call him something equally insulting and he gets the picture pretty quick.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
