Steve, no worries... we know you meant well. Without this, there is no discussion and it's within the discussions do people find what resonates with them. I'm sure many people will still feel inclined to get their WAS something. Maybe something will stick out and stop someone from going crazy on Vday or maybe it won't.
I'm enjoying the sharing and few laughs to be had. Takes some of the pressure off.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
I want to say thank you to Steve, for getting the subject discussed. Of course everyone knows he wisely advises against all pursuit. But there are situations where it's not pursuit and is necessary and that's really helpful. My advice is if it isn't pursuit and needs to happen then you can be appropriate and still make it about you. For example if I had to do it now I could buy flowers because I really like them being on the kitchen table, or buy a better frying pan because I really enjoy the cooking we are doing.
LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18 D 11 S 14 BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18 3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18 I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes) ...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!
