Btrow. Boundaries? Is that something you eat? The house is overpriced. I know that. The agent knows that. XW won't admit it. But there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. Whe our agent said that we need to lower the price XW said rightaway that is not going to happen. I would buy it myself if I could. And if we were to change the agent the price would be on the right scale but XW won't go with that. Regarding the house I'm totally lost. I can't really do anything. If I say that I won't leave every other week anymore XW actually has the right to make me pay rent to her. Crazy stuff.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
Hi Petri, that sounds like a tough situation with the house. At some point if there's no progress do you think your ex-wife will accept that it's overpriced and maybe agree to change the agent? It'll be good when you can sell it since communicating with your ex-wife about it is probably not the most fun or pleasant task.
What about you Petri? Have you tried dating or thought about finding someone new? Or do you think you'd give your ex-wife another chance if she ever tries to come back?
Last night she sent me a message after I informed her that our contract is ending. She wants to put the sell on hold for a while and put it on market again some time next year. If the price goes down enough I will buy the house myself.
I thought the same thing about the agent. I actually told her to find it if she doesn't want to work with the one we have now. And I told her that the price will go down about 20k. She wondered if we would sell it by ourselves. I'm not going to do that.
Nicole. Great to see that your back. Hope you are doing fine. I actually did date someone. It ended due to the woman's ex. They were good friends before they started dating(they dated for a month). And pretty soon after their breakup she met me. She didn't want anything going on with men but I guess I swept her off her feet. And the ex saw us kissing and didn't like it. So he said that they can not be friends if she was with me. And she chose the friendship with ex/friend. I'm fine with that and I know I deserve much better. I'm not actively searching for anyone i.e. dating sites/apps at the moment. Taking my ex back? I think a lot needs to happen for that to be a realistic idea. Who knows? But I'm not waiting around for her.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
Why do WW's act so freaking weird? The spew I got on Friday night...XW was with OM at his place. Why on earth would someone start texting their ex when they are with OP? These people are more out of their minds than I ever thought they could be. It's been over a year and the rollercoaster just keeps on going.
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Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
At first about me not giving her enough information that we have an open house and a private showing. I told her that it is not crucial information to her until we get an actual offer. Earlier she asked if she needs to come earlier to help organize the B-Day. I responded that "if you want/have time". It turns out that my answer actually means that I think that she doens't care about our son's B-Day and that she even doesn't want to come. And she stayed on that line for about am hour. On the bright side though, it wasn't as bad as before. So some improvment there.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
how's it going? Just reading up on things in your thread and I just wonder what would happen if you stopped talking to your ex altogether? It seems she must stay in communication with you for one reason or another. Why do you continue to respond? Why not move on? Is there any legalities to be discussed still?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
The house is overpriced. I know that. The agent knows that. XW won't admit it. But there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. Whe our agent said that we need to lower the price XW said rightaway that is not going to happen. I would buy it myself if I could. And if we were to change the agent the price would be on the right scale but XW won't go with that. Regarding the house I'm totally lost. I can't really do anything. If I say that I won't leave every other week anymore XW actually has the right to make me pay rent to her. Crazy stuff.
