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petri #2822436 11/16/18 05:46 PM
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OneArt. Nothing. Just the link to the article.

lost. Yes we are D'ed already so it would be more amicable coparenting or something. And in my opinion we already coparent quite good.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822467 11/16/18 07:19 PM
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Temp check warning!

Keep your eyes on the road you have chosen. Keep the lighthouse shining bright. Let see what comes with the tide...


WW H(me): 53
W: 48
T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm
petri #2822495 11/16/18 08:01 PM
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Neff! I didn't respond to her. MAYBE if she had included some text why she sent it I might have.

Another weird thing happened couple of days ago. My ex-FIL asked if I coupd come to their cabin with our kids. Since it's S11's B-Day I declined. He then asked if I could come next weekend. I told him that XW has the kids. He just stated that XW can not dictate if I go to the cabin with the kids or not. And he actually called her daughter and told her that I'm going to the cabin with the kids on her week. He's pretty cool. smile


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822514 11/16/18 09:00 PM
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Well, go with the flow. Get your amoafwl version ready just in case. I afraid to ask but...do you have any expectation?


WW H(me): 53
W: 48
T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm
petri #2822516 11/16/18 09:10 PM
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Yes I have expectation. To sell this house and buy a nice apartment for me and the kids and renovate it into our likings. And in the future to form a relationship that I deserve.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822518 11/16/18 09:17 PM
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Great P! That’s the attitude.

Hugs for you and the kids

(((P)))


WW H(me): 53
W: 48
T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm
petri #2822532 11/16/18 10:03 PM
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Thanks Neff!

And the article was most likely temp checking or some. Now the spew began again. The texts I received just now...can it be more clear that she wants to pick up a fight. And oh the irritation when I didn't bite the bait. Right now I feel victorious.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822619 11/17/18 07:25 PM
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S12's B-Day. Good party. Only son's friends. XW was here too. I did say to her that after yesterday it would probably be best if she wouldn't come. I got a pretty nasty reaction from that and she came anyway. She acted like nothing had happened.

Open house tomorrow. Hopefully we get the house sold soon. Upwards and onwards.

Keep it up all of you!


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822620 11/17/18 07:33 PM
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I need some advice on the house. Our contract with our real estate agent is ending in two weeks. XW doesn't want to continue it with that agent. How should I proceed with things? Should I involve myself in getting a new one or tell her to do it? I handled the previous one.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822624 11/17/18 08:29 PM
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Why hasn't it been sold yet, do you know that? Is it overpriced or just bad luck?

And do you believe that any agent you find will do a better job than hers?

BTW have you forgotten all about boundaries from your newbie days, since you let her in the house after telling her not to LOL


M:46 WXW:40
T:20 M:13
D3,D8,D10
BD:11/12/16
D:12/14/16
OM confirmed 01/20/17
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