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petri #2819644 10/27/18 07:24 PM
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Today I realized that I really don't have friends. Or that I did but not anymore. The friends I was supposed to go out with. They stood me up. Nice.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2819694 10/28/18 09:49 AM
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Sorry to hear that Petri.

Was that your entire entourage? And do you have any idea why they would do that?


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T:20 M:13
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BD:11/12/16
D:12/14/16
OM confirmed 01/20/17
petri #2820165 11/01/18 11:55 AM
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No it was not. What I think I meant by it was that I used to have a lot of friends. During our relationship I lost a lot of friends. Some stayed some didn't. But the way I'm being treated by some of my friends is something I would never do to anyone. Like the couple of friends that stood me up on the weekend.

Otherwise things are going good. Been hanging out with kids this week, although I've been sick since Monday.

Our real estate agent called me the other day. There has been no movement at all in regards the house. He said that we need to bring the price down. That didn't resonate with XW at all, not at all. And she still doesn't want open house, only private showings.

And it took XW a week from the break up to go back to the OM. Apparrently us LBSs need to call our WAWs whor* and stuff like that. They seem to dig it.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2820198 11/01/18 03:11 PM
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Not your monkeys anymore P...feed only yours.

Get some GAL, get in touch with the friends left, go for new ones, go for the old ones. Friends are forever. Just GAL some more.

Glad everything is ok with the kids. Stay strong P, get well soon.


WW H(me): 53
W: 48
T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm
petri #2820199 11/01/18 03:16 PM
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Neff, just a strep infection nothing too serious. Got meds just today when infection was confirmed. Getting better as soon as meds kick in
For the monkeys. I know brother, I know.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2820316 11/02/18 11:38 AM
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Hope you are doing better P. Hey, get the GAL going man. You know how important it is.

Have a good weekend. How are the kids doing?


WW H(me): 53
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T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm
petri #2820403 11/02/18 06:13 PM
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Kids are doing fine. Naturally they are sad about our dog. But here they come to their mom. Not really showing wmotions or wanting to talk about things. And that is sad for me to see. I'll get back to GAL as soon as the meds kick in and the freaking pain is away from my throat.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822422 11/16/18 05:00 PM
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Has any of you had a WAW/WW ask for amicable divorce? I think I just did. XW texted me a link to an article about amivable divorce. Just a link. Nothing else. Should I respond to it in someway? It's just funny that after a year of spew and OM she wants a amicable divorce...


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
petri #2822423 11/16/18 05:03 PM
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Looks more like a request for a passive aggressive divorce. An amicable divorce request would likely be in person and come with some expression remorse for how things turned out. Probably just trying to start a battle. Personally, I would not respond to that. She couldn't even bother including any text?

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You are already D'ed correct? I wouldn't even respond.


H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019
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