Doing well....hip is much better, going to go for a run in a bit. The weekend with my buddies was awesome, we had a ton of fun and I am still recovering. I took today off to get some recoup time but then my youngest told me her tummy hurt and couldn't go to school today so I guess that ruined my plans
On the girl front I texted with blondy last night for about 45 mins last night and then she ended the convo saying she was going to bed to read. I still don't understand her as it has been 3 weeks since our first date but she still keeps on responding to my texts and bantering with me in conversation. She shows no sense of urgency to meet, never initiated but is still responding to me. I will hit her up on Tuesday and ask her out for this weekend and she how she responds. At this point I am not too confident and really her lack of initiation with me is starting to put me off a bit.
Something just feels off, like I am getting the slow phase out. She never initiates contact, our last two conversations have been really short and she never really asks anything about me. I just don’t think she is as into me as she was after our first date. It just feels that instead of her ghosting me or just telling me the truth I am getting the slow phase out with her hoping I read the signs. Part of me feels that if I never contacted her again that she would never initiate with me. Me being the only one to ever initiate is starting to turn me off.
She never initiates contact, our last two conversations have been really short and she never really asks anything about me.
I have a rule that I will send up to three messages asking questions and if she answers them without asking questions back I cease communication. If she doesn't ask questions in my mind she's not interested.
I hear ya L.....that is kind of where I am at with this one. She responds within 45 minutes but it's just superficial type of conversation. I was out of town all weekend, hit her up when I got back on Sunday night she just never inquired about what we did (she said it looks like we had a blast) and her never initiating conversation is getting really old. I sent her a couple of pics of the concert and she just ended the convo by telling me she was going to bed to read and to sleep well. I mean I hadn't spoken to her in 3 days I just thought there would be a little more...IDK, I guess I am just running out of patience combined with her lack of interest/initiating has me ready to just stop initiating contact with her.
I try to not have any expectations but I would expect someone that was really interested in me to at minimum be inquiring about how my day is, etc. So I think I am just ready to move on. I just feel like she should be proactively engaging me more.
Thanks guys......I am, I need more than what she is giving. I will just stop initiating and if she ever reaches out just go from there. Based on her past history I highly doubt that she does.
It's ok Nef...I like G's head shots.