Hi Petri, just after I wrote that last post to you I met a family from the West Coast of Finland here in my building! I recognized the language when they were in the common area. They were probably a bit overwhelmed by my enthusiasm but they're really nice and I look forward to spending time with them. I hope you're doing well!
That's good to hear Nicole! Us finns are not all the stereotypes which we are portrayed in. Hopefully...
It's morning here and I just woke up. XW had sent me a link to a song last night. It was a finnish song titled: if it hurts. It's about one lovimg the other to the max and things falling apart despite their love. I don't know what she wanted to express with that song and if I should ask her what she wants to say with it. Any thoughts?
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
The thing that worries me is the tone of the song she linked. It has somewhat a message of hurting herself. And that worries me. Her friend informed me that XW is not getting any pleasure or joy out of anything. So alarms are ringing right now.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
I obviously do not now that song and wouldn't understand a single word if you posted the lyrics. Shouldn't she be happy in love with OM? Rainbows, sunshine and unicorns. Are you sure that friend of hers isn't just used as a tool to make you feel bad and get with the program?
If not, then yeah, maybe you should be a bit concerned. Are you perhaps considering a simple "are you ok"?
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17
I've heard that she is not happy with OM. I don't know if that is true or not. I am worried. I don't know if I should ask her if all is ok. But I think she would say "yes".
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
