Hair pulling......personally would not bother me. I wish my dad would have done that versus thumping me on the back of the head
It was bothering him 2 days after the fact, its the MENTAL IMPACT of this behavior that concerns me. I got the wooden spoon plenty as a kid and am grateful for it, this hair pulling is more in line with sadism IMHO. Shes using it for dominance and compliance, not discipline.
Originally Posted by Joseph9
I would only suggest that you look inward and determine if you would have had an issue with her disciplining him by pulling his hair if you were still living under one roof or if you have an issue with it because of the situation your in, combined with everything else that has happened.
If she did this when you were together would it have made you sick?
I 10000000% would have an issue with it if we were together. Not to mention the Hypocrisy. She FLIPPED OUT the one time i spanked him, once, with a diaper on, for putting a 6 inch crack in his bedroom door by throwing a toy at it. She claims she has never hit, spanked, or anything else with him, when she is clearly pulling his hair. He has done an odd thing before to me too, where he clampped his hand over my mouth when I raised my voice and he yelled "NO SCREAMING".
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
