Yeah...that D punch takes your breath away but you come back down to earth when you remind yourself he is only 5'6 and is a sever downgrade to me Now it is kinda laughable.
Other than that I did get some interest on my profile from another cute girl that lived pretty close to me. She liked me so I sent her an email but she came back with some lame, boring response and didn't even ask a question about me to help facilitate the conversation.
Im curious what question did you ask her and did she say anything about herself? Just because she didnt ask anything about you is not a bad thing, she could be trying to validate herself to you, which is great.
I recently changed my profile which has done some good. I changed it from telling about myself which i am sure 100% of guys profile say, to what I am looking for. Which i figure subconsciously changes their viewpoint from does he meet my standards to do I meet his standards. Which I like.
Originally Posted By: Joseph9
I have had a few other likes as well this week but no one that I would be physically interested in.
There is nothing wrong with going to have a drink with friends, plus helps with the texting and talking the more people you get experience flirting with, plus all women usually have beautiful friends, so even though they may not be physically attractive their friends might be. Just make it known upfront its just a friendship and nothing more.
Rexgm
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
Hey....RX I guess I wouldn't say it was a bad response. She did answer the question and what she enjoyed but did elaborate on anything else or ask me a question. The first part of her profile was about her love of God and her mission around that love then she went into what she did and her son. It was very spiritual, whimsical in nature. She liked me first and I thought she was good looking so I sent her an email asking where she was from because what she was describing as something she enjoys doesn't happen where we live. She answered the question with a smiley face at the end but didn't ask me anything in follow up.
I do have on my profile at the end what I am looking for but I still get people looking and liking that don't fit that description.
I have a good girlfriend tell me the same thing that basically I should be interacting with any lady that shows an interest. That has been tough for me but I guess your right if I am honest upfront. Some have sent me messages and I have not responded. Since I have D's usually it is something about them or their D's.
The teacher that I am currently talking to has not asked one question about my D or my D's which is really cool.
Alright RX....I responded to her email and told her what I would add to that perfect morning of hers. I then gave her my cell phone number and told her to give me a call if she wanted to meet up for some coffee or a drink next week. I am tired of the back and forth emails. I guess I will find out her interest level
very nice only thing I would of done differently is instead of asking her to meet up, I would of setup a place and a time and see how she responded to that. Like tuesday soso cafe at 1100 am or wednesday soso cafe for for drinks 6pm. Then you can gauge her interest in how she responds, yes/no and she lets you know what times are good for her, at this point she should give you her number so you can confirm on the day, or no and she doesnt respond with a counter offer which means she has little interest. its all the little nuances which take time to get used to. Which is why I say the more people you talk to the more you find what works.
Also I agree with you, less activity online the better, get to a face to face as soon as possible, that is when you can be your most charming and let your personality soar.
Rexgm
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
Ok...makes sense. I thought about a specific time and place but I am running into logistical problems with the Metroplex being so large. Do I set up a specific place in their town or mine? I guess I did it this way so when/if she responds then I could set up the meet based on that and her schedule.
...get to a face to face as soon as possible, that is when you can be your most charming and let your personality soar.
I don't know about Joseph9, but every time I let my personality soar it's like sudden death. Instead, I have to nurse a beer and shake my head in affirmation while my date yammers. As soon as I open my mouth it's like the death knell of the grim reaper. I just have to shut the f*ck up.
Loosen up, let it flow. Make her a flying Pterodactyl.
So now you're calling me a dinosaur? I'm a fossil, not a dinosaur. Jeeeez, I'm going to have to go back over to that other forum for divorced people. I can't recall the name of the forum.
Now it is kinda laughable.