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Ok.....after 4 hours of swiping it is now a waiting game. Those that originally swiped on me I did not swipe on them so they are gone. I feel like this is a full time job smile


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Curiosity got the best of me..... I joined.

I am suspicious as to why most of these guys are also smokin' hot...... almost seems fake..... until a guy I know and went on a date with came up, then I knew at least he is real. I swiped right as a joke, since we still kid with each other.

Seriously though, most look like models with some sort of great career...

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LOL.....I guess I know my competition then. Maybe I need to bust out the gym selfies smile


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Originally Posted By: Ginger1
most look like models with some sort of great career...


Not to be Debbie Downer, but just remember, just like you're putting up the best pictures you can find of yourself, so are they. And they are spinning the narrative to make themselves sound great. I'm not saying there aren't some great women out there, just take each one with a grain of salt.

Best of luck.


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Originally Posted By: Joseph9
Ok.....after 4 hours of swiping it is now a waiting game. Those that originally swiped on me I did not swipe on them so they are gone. I feel like this is a full time job smile


Not one of the 20 were swipe-able?

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Originally Posted By: Joseph9
I feel like this is a full time job smile


That's great! I wouldn't suggest going crazy with the swiping.
It becomes kind of exhausting holding conversations with too many women at a time, and if the conversations lead to dates, that's a lot of juggling. Just my $ .02....


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So far I have swiped R on maybe 10 to 15 ladies out of IDK how many. I paid $23 for the month to be able to see who swiped on me. I didn't care for any of them. Maybe I am too picky but I won't settle.


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That's why I think IRL is much much better.

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Good for you dude!Enjoy!

You got me wanting to join. Just waiting for my W to move out. Don't want to start off on the wrong foot regarding why we can't go back to my place lol!

Had to scratch a big check for house equity today. Ouch!

Got a text Friday from the young lady I met at the beach last year. Wants to know if we can hang out at the beach this year.

Life goes on brother.

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V - Yes, I am open to both. If nothing else at minimum I get to mingle a little bit and get some interaction so I can practice my game. It's fun and I don't have any expectations.

LH - Yes, I cut that check last month. It stings, not gonna lie. I definitely would wait until your W is gone for a few different reasons. I would definitely respond to that! And yes, life keeps rolling on. I am not the first person to get D'd and I won't be the last.

It actually makes you feel better looking at all of the ladies out there with children. I ran across one who was widowed and a mom of 3 boys. It just puts it all into perspective.


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