Advice on my scenario Pt. 3

[OrangeK]

But why?
I was always good to all her family. Why do they believe the BS she is telling them (what that is i have no idea)

[OrangeK]

Im aware of the flying monkey thing, but that wouldn't be her family. So far ive had no flying monkey contact.

Her bestie at work would be this person for her.


What is her profit in smearing me to family she rarely sees?

[Vanilla]

Im aware of the flying monkey thing, but that wouldn't be her family. So far ive had no flying monkey contact.

Her bestie at work would be this person for her.


What is her profit in smearing me to family she rarely sees?

So you never see them! The truth never comes out only her story.

For fuel and support.

Just because she can.

To isolate you further.

Because it's script

Because she is introducing OM

Because she has scrambled eggs for brains

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She likes doing this, it illicits a reaction from you. It amuses her.

The truth will out. It always does, let it unfold in time, she will unmask eventually.

V

[Vanilla]

But why?
I was always good to all her family. Why do they believe the BS she is telling them (what that is i have no idea)

Don't assume they are, except you have an RO so that may be the root cause.

She is setting up future flying monkeys, but it should suit you on the NC front.

V

[OrangeK]

So you never see them! The truth never comes out only her story.

"THe truth will always come out"

For fuel and support.

this breaks my heart...

Just because she can.

this breaks my heart...

To isolate you further.

this breaks my heart...

Because it's script

This makes sense, she doesn't know anything else. How long does family believe every man shes dated or friend she has has screwed her over, at what point do that say "well you must be the problem then..."?

Because she is introducing OM

- Im not sure this is happening, I feel like its awfully early for family to be introduced to OM.
She hasnt even aknowladged it AN IOTA online. this would be very alarming. Plus her family wouldn't take well to it. VERY Catholic, and they LOVE me. This would be a hard sell for WW
Divorce and Adultery are big no-no's
She probably told them i cheated and was abusive.
Theyll get the real story eventually from someone. Sure as hell wont be me.

Because she has scrambled eggs for brains

- I really do pity her....poor thing.

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She likes doing this, it illicits a reaction from you. It amuses her.

- this makes me sick.

The truth will out. It always does, let it unfold in time, she will unmask eventually.

V

Ill be waiting, popcorn in hand, waiting for the mushroom cloud.
Her R with OM
Her Job
Her family
Blamo.
What a shameful waste. If she had just ACTUALLY been the person she pretended for 5 years to be, she would be literally the most amazing woman ever. The personality she fabricated for me was beautiful. I miss her.

I just want the woman i met back, and she isnt coming back.
this effing stinks.
I want the "ah ha moment" so bad, im so done dwelling on this, wish my brain/heart would understand that.


Thanks Vanilla. You are an angel. i wish you could talk to her, id love to be a fly on the wall for that conversation.

[Vanilla]

You will get there.

This is the bargaining phase of the Kubler Ross cycle.

So in your case if she wakes up, if she see OM as a dirt bag, if she starts to treat S3 with the unconditional love you have, if, if if, if

The cognitive dissonance will ease, it will, because your mind is scenario testing Orange. As the scenario run out then you are faced with knowing. Once you know you can never unknow. Already I see the anger phase starting.

I love the anger phase on a sitch, it really marks a change. Lovely directive white anger that drives you to GAL and the next phase.

After Thursday please, we don't want that to leak in body language in court!

V

[OrangeK]

Thursday has my guts in knots. I could get charged.
All before 2nd Anniversary.

"As long as we both shall live" my @$$.


Vanilla, you're from the UK Right?
Im a punk rocker from back in my day.
You familiar with the band CockSparrer?
"I've Got your Number" by them is SO ON POINT ITS INSANE!!!

[OrangeK]

"I Got Your Number"
It can't be right what I'm reading here
No one believes in all this stuff no more
Our ideas don't see eye to eye
You get your press with a pocketfull of lies

Telling everybody every word is true
One day soon they're gonna see through you

[Chorus]
I got your number
You can fool some people some part of the time
I got your number
I aint ever gonna toe that particular partyline

There'll be some people gonna back you up
But don't look here for moral support
Don't you ask no favours from me
I don't believe in charity
Telling everybody you're wonderful
What are you gonna do when there's no one left to tell it to

[Chorus]

You think you're so special
But you're only fooling
Tell your lies to anyone but me

You think you're so special
But you're only fooling
Tell your lies to anyone but me

[Chorus x3]

[OrangeK]

V

I'm probably going to catch a two-by-four from you on this one but I got to ask, what is the likelihood that I get re idolized by her

[sandi2]

I'm probably going to catch a two-by-four from you on this one but I got to ask, what is the likelihood that I get re idolized by her

(Smack)