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Ummmmmmm is there sort of special or disappearing ink here? I'm not seeing anything but Doodlers post. Is this problem ever going to be fixed or is this community on its last legs? I hope not but have to wonder?
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
I had written the most exciting post but it was during the Disappeared era:-). Lets see if I can catch everyone up.
Remember the guy I was insanely attracted to that worked for my friend? I had one too many margaritas and made an a$$ in front of myself last spring? Yes. Im sure you guys forgot. It was uneventful. Well we were going to meet for a drink. He was insistent and I agreed. It never crossed my mind until the day after we scheduled that he might bail...boom. Call me an old curmudgeon, but FFS why do peeps do this? Yes. I realize that a better, easier opp came along but either a) dont plan something you have no intention of doing or b) send text and say bailing. My feelings (Im building up quite the armor) werent hurt but I loathe rude. Eh. Oh well. Ill run into him soon and Ill be nice.
Oh and I was reading on other threads what folks are attracted to.... Im attracted to primarily black or biracial men. The guy that bailed is white but he has the look that makes me go weak- if thats possible for me. Which is funny, because people (including my guy friends) are always a bit surprised by this. Thats always what Ive been primarily physically and sexually attracted to but never explored until post D. But again, Im more apt to be attracted to those men, however Ive only dated white guys. Just thought it was interesting to read what some others like.
I have another funny Ill share soon. Love reading everyones threads. Hugs!
You have not been around much in the last month. The forum has an issue these days with disappearing postings. We have all been experimenting to see what the system will accept and what it will not. We have found that contractions, using special characters, copying and pasting from a document, as well as from cell phones, laptops and using other forms of software sometimes throws the system into a crazy mode of disappearing postings. Also, lengthy postings trip the disappearing act as well. It's been a trial by error type of situation.
As moderators, we have informed the higher ups of the issue and it is my understanding that they are working on it and they will be doing something with the system in the next month or so. We ask that you please be patient. As I move through the postings, I am looking for those blank postings and will attempt to restore them for the posters.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
In my 20's I had one serious romance with a guy who looked like OJ (before that was a bad thing) and a serious crush/short dating experience with a biracial man (who is still adorable and brilliant but happily married now for decades).
My exH was white and the rest of the guys I dated in my 20's were, as well as the first couple after my divorce. But now the last three men I dated were black and the new guy I have a date with on Saturday is half black half jewish. (He asked me if I had ever dated a black man, I said yes but he'd be my first Jewish date lol). As I get older I have to say black men keep their looks a lot better than most white guys!
Sadly I don't map for men of colour. I prefer blonde or redheads with pale skin. Ash Brown is ok too. It's just the way it is. I have lots of coloured and black male friends, particularly those from the Asian community. Lovely men who will come into my life as great friends but not lovers.
Being pale and blonde myself that's interesting.
But as for do ers, I think that might be an experiment. I have dated 5 men and married 2 all with the same first name. And even more freaky the guy I am seeing at the moment has that name and another guy who asked me out is the same. That would be 7 men all with the same first name.
That's like really peculiar, perhaps I am cursed.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW