Since this is my GOOD NEWS thread I thought I'd share another FIRST with y'all.
The weather here was beautiful this weekend (finally) it was sunny and in the low 80's.
I spent Saturday shopping the early afternoon away with my mom and then went to see an old friend off on his three month trip by RV to Colorado. Brought my H with me and we had a really nice time.
Then today...came the FIRST...the weather was so beautiful that several of my H's AA Harley buddies wanted to go on a ride AND to my amazement he asked me about going and said he'd like me to come with them. THIS may seem like no big deal (and actually it shouldn't be) but the fact that one of the greatest downfalls of our M was my H always keeping me wayyyyyy out of the loop of friends he had in the program, this was major thing for him. Well, I went and the six guys that came along were all very pleasant. None of them brought their wives, but I wasn't the least bit uncomfortable. My H was very attentive to me as if he was showing these guys that he was happy and proud that our M had survived his period of insanity and he was letting them know that from now on...where he goes, I go. So, this is yet another wall my H is tearing down for himself. GOOD FOR US!! T2
Hi Guys,thanks for stopping by and for the compliments, I'm honored.
This BB is a wonderful place. I know that the posters new and veteran have saved MY SANITY on too many occassions to count, so I think I'll be bouncing around these boards for a long time to come just giving back to others what's been given to me. T2
damnit t2 - i actually have tears in my eyes this morning - if anyone knows what this means to you it's me. i KNOW this has been a hurdle you have had to overcome many times in the past - this is just AWESOME
your hubby? could it be he has REALLY LEARNED some things???
Wow T2!! You go girl..a Harley?! Love it. My H had a harley years ago, when he was in his 20's and I actually had a desire last summer to get one myself. Not to buy, but just rent for a month! Something different I guess.
Thanks for sharing your life with H with us..it is an inspiration to me.
How awesome is that?? Did you have your black boots on and your hair braided in one of those Harley black leather hair thingys?
Thanks T2 for just being here. You still give me hope. Although you have been yelling at me to detach for a year, and I kind of still stink in that area...lol
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Love it. My H had a harley years ago, when he was in his 20's and I actually had a desire last summer to get one myself. Not to buy, but just rent for a month! Something different I guess.
