I wonder if any of you all are in the San Antonio/Austin area, we should have a me up and talk about DBing and GALing.
So I have been landscaping around my house. I have took out bushes and mulch and put down pavers and rocks. Next I'm building a outdoor firepit in the back yard. It looks awesome. I have also lost almost 40 pounds. I have to start cutting up. I want to lose 10 more. I'm starting to feel good about myself.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
I wonder if any of you all are in the San Antonio/Austin area, we should have a me up and talk about DBing and GALing.
So I have been landscaping around my house. I have took out bushes and mulch and put down pavers and rocks. Next I'm building a outdoor firepit in the back yard. It looks awesome. I have also lost almost 40 pounds. I have to start cutting up. I want to lose 10 more. I'm starting to feel good about myself.
Maybe something at the river walk. I love that place.
So I called AT&T to cancel the Tech coming up. I listed my wife as the person who would be home during the visit.
So I had to send her a text. Because if they come out it's a $99 charge.
The text stated. "I cancelled the Tech coming out, if they called them them that it was cancelled.".
The text was to the point and direct. What do you all think?
I think you need to stop and take a deep breath and accept that this is a long, long marathon and not a sprint. Your sitch does not hinge on insignificant stuff like this, it's nothing to worry about. Giving her time and space does not mean you can't ever talk to her about the kids, or stuff that needs done around the house or whatever. It just means pulling back a bit. Read Sandi's 37 rules every day, that is your roadmap. I remember being at this stage too, I was so worried about every little conversation, text, body movement. I had W under a microscope. THAT IS NOT GOOD BEHAVIOR! If you micro-analyze everything she WILL sense it, and it will feel like pressure to her. So try and relax, you've got a lot of time. Don't sweat the small stuff.
