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She is not living with OM and the frequency in which they see/talk with each other has waned over the last couple of months. So, just out of curiosity, what harm for a letter do?


Me: 38
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Bomb: 1/6/2017
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Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
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She knows what your feelings are, you have been pursing her from day one. This makes you look weak, needy and unattractive in her eyes.

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Originally Posted By: sellout
She is not living with OM and the frequency in which they see/talk with each other has waned over the last couple of months. So, just out of curiosity, what harm for a letter do?


What good do you think the letter would do?

Saying the same thing yet again with pretty handwriting is going to sway her?

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Originally Posted By: sellout
She is not living with OM and the frequency in which they see/talk with each other has waned over the last couple of months. So, just out of curiosity, what harm for a letter do?


Sorry, my misunderstanding. I thought you wrote that earlier, but I apologize for not going bac and double checking.

Regardless, I dont believe at this time she isnt interested in what YOU need.

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Sellout,

What have you learned from all the advice that has been given to you? What have you done with it?

You said that one week your W wants to work on your M, the next she doesn't. You aren't much different. You both shift with the wind. Where do you expect the stability in your M/R to come from if neither of you are stable?

When you choose to stabilize yourself, your chances of success will increase. Until then, 9 months/5 years/10 years will not make a difference.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
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