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You are the joker in spades, my friend. But a good joker. How are you?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Well, I told HQ that I would last night. Guess we will see what happens now.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Well, everything is set and will make the reservations as soon as the parenting issue is set. This oughtta be fun, at least.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Well, I told HQ that I would last night. Guess we will see what happens now.
That is awesome! I say go and have a blast. Good for you.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
A part of me is hesitant and a part isn't. It's like this war waging inside of me, you know? HQ is truly an awesome woman. I need to keep my mind straight and not let other things cloud it.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
It's like this war waging inside of me, you know? HQ is truly an awesome woman. I need to keep my mind straight and not let other things cloud it.
Jeep,
Your feelings are understandable and reasonable. Your marriage just ended and you don't ever want to go through that again so you don't want to jump back into something for fear that you'll be so love stricken that you won't use good judgement and rational thought. It's a reasonable fear.
On the other hand, "HQ is truly an awesome woman" and she seems to know that you're an awesome guy.
Yoda says, "Strong with you the fear of failure is." HQ might be the droid you're looking for.
A part of me is hesitant and a part isn't. It's like this war waging inside of me, you know? HQ is truly an awesome woman. I need to keep my mind straight and not let other things cloud it.
I TOTALLY get that! Been there, done that. I have no doubt you can handle it though. And, call me crazy (which with the few weeks I have had lately is a VERY real possibility), but I think Doodler's post above is giving you similar advice to that which you give others. LOL I would say go with the flow, but then someone will point out that only dead fish go with the flow, so I'm going to say go with your heart. Your heart knows.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
