Newbie Thread 6

[lt0402]

On those last texts I think you should just ignore them if you're still debating. Best to just let it sit out there in my opinion.

[hawker]

I haven't talked to her since Monday the 16th and I have avoided her on purpose. No we had been talking like twice a week and I thought she was trying to friend zone me so I said those things to remind her I am not ok with all of this and went back to going dark. Haven't heard a peep....

[hawker]

Lt. The dog rescue volunteering is great!! I have been doing it every Friday and I really enjoy it, the dogs get so excited!!!!

Hope you have a good weekend!!!

[fightin]

Hi hawker,

Hope all is well. Just dropping by to check in.

[hawker]

Hey fightin,

I am doing well! I have been busy with work and my volunteering at the dog shelter and golfing and just hanging with friends. I think my D should be final by the end of the month.

You were correct when you said W would keep continuing to text...we didn't speak for like 2 weeks. She came and found me at school Monday and told me something about the gym, etc. I think it was legit? Anyhow she texted after to let me know her mother went to the doctor and got a clean bill of health for now (stage 4 cancer). I did reply to say I thought that was great news.

I am doing well I think, I am really okay by myself and my dogs and enjoy "me" time. My beastie is still living with me as well as she is going through the same thing but her W is being a total jerk about custody so she has been at that for almost 9 months.

Anyhow yes, I do still miss W at times and I would try to start over if she ever brought it up. But for now I am living my life and not worrying about that because it does me no good!! :-)

Our close group of friends still do not hang out with her or SOW...she texts one of them every so often but other than that I don't know what will ever come about....time will tell...

thanks for checking in!

[NYGal]

Hi Hawk. I just noticed that your BD was about a year ago. I'm sorry. I know the first anniversary of these things is hard. Thinking of you.

[lt0402]

Ditto. Hoping things are going well Hawk!!!

[hawker]

Thanks NYGal and LT....yes it does stir up some bad memories...I am doing good though!! I have come along way in a year!! STBX texted today wanting to talk about the games last night....SMH...on VDAY of all days...I am glad we never celebrated this day, we both think it is dumb so I am not sad about that at least!! :-)

[lt0402]

You have come a long way Hawk! You should be very proud of that. Glad that you had a good day yesterday!

[hawker]

Thanks for always stopping by my thread and giving me encouragement LT! It has been the toughest year I have ever been through but you and a lot of others have made it somewhat easier if possible!! :-) I appreciate all of the support and advice I have received on here, it feels good to talk to people who really understand!!!