My Loving Wife Turned Against Me One Day 2

[Wonka]

Lest the name throws you off...I am a female.

sashaying across the stage in my bright neon lime green boa alongside with Mach in a pink tutu

[Cadet]

Some of my own MLC experience can be found through this thread title:

A Journey Into the MLC Mind

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...696#Post2420696

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...552#Post2429552

[Drew]

sashaying across the stage in my bright neon lime green boa alongside with Mach in a pink tutu

I feel like I have to stick up for my buddy Mach. He doesn't wear a pink tutu, Eric does.

[Ginger1]

sashaying across the stage in my bright neon lime green boa alongside with Mach in a pink tutu

I feel like I have to stick up for my buddy Mach. He doesn't wear a pink tutu, Eric does.

I can confirm this.

[Drew]

Let's get on with the Cld program. Not the MLCer program.

Cld,

Did you totally ignore this???

Wonka gave you some wonderful advice, similar to nearly everyone else here. You keep wanting to understand MLC which is a cheeseless tunnel. But nearly every time someone suggests working on you, you deflect.

Again, if something stings, there's probably a reason.

Work on you.

Too many words, Cat?

[Wonka]

sashaying across the stage in my bright neon lime green boa alongside with Mach in a pink tutu

I feel like I have to stick up for my buddy Mach. He doesn't wear a pink tutu, Eric does.

Doh.

This is what happens when there are far too many secure, confident manly-man posters wearing different colored tutus here!

Let me walk this back....just to confirm.

Eric's pink
Mach's purple
Drew's green

Gotcha. No problem. Really need to get my men friends in tutus straight!

Maybe still experiencing the tail end of my MLC... Nah!

[Wonka]

Hey G! How are you doin' girlfriend?!!

[Cld]

Drew,

I am reading Wonka's story and that's what I have found, she wrote this:

"Please keep in mind that during this process, we do not have conscious awareness that all of this is directly tied to our unresolved issues in childhood/young adult years. We just don't know and are not able to connect our dots because we don't think rationally at all. So to expect us to have some recognition of this correlation is a fallacy. We are too busy running away from ourselves. To have the time for reflection and introspection is not high on our agenda."

Wonka does recognize here that is all directly tied to childhood unresolved issues.
Drew, I am working on myself, don't worry, but we all also need to realize that the MLC is the result of a trouble childhood where the parents divorced, didn't like each other and badmouthed each other in front of the children.

[Drew]

we all also need to realize that the MLC is the result of a trouble childhood where the parents divorced, didn't like each other and badmouthed each other in front of the children.

Wow. MLC solved.

Drew, I am working on myself, don't worry

How? Details please. That will be much more productive work here then trying to figure out MLC.

But that's just my opinion. Oh wait, and Wonka's. And Mach's. And ..... yeah, pretty much everyone else's.

But if you feel your STBXW's MLC is 100% responsible for the failure of your marriage, I guess just wait it out.

[cat04]

Too many words, Cat?

Drew,

I believe you have written more words in the last two days than in your entire time here.

Would really love you to take up the invite though...

Yup, I know...