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Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652453 02/11/16 09:41 AM
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The counselling session will be in 2 hours.

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Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652477 02/11/16 10:19 AM
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Anybody have any advice on first day of counselling?

Me: 43, W: 43
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Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652503 02/11/16 11:39 AM
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I feel deep lonliness

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Still living together
Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652504 02/11/16 11:43 AM
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Hang in there WillDo. This whole thing [censored] for all of us.

Regarding counseling, let the counselor guide you.
Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
Thornton #2652561 02/11/16 02:04 PM
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Thornton it finished. The tone was ok. Even the affair was out there. She did talk about my depression most of the time.

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ILUB: 26 August 2014
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Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652563 02/11/16 02:16 PM
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Good. When she talks, just listen and STFU.

She might say things to the counselor that you disagree with. Let her talk, because that is her perception.
Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652565 02/11/16 02:18 PM
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So the support I thought I got when I was struggling with depression was invalid.

Me: 43, W: 43
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ILUB: 26 August 2014
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Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652566 02/11/16 02:19 PM
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ok will listen.

Me: 43, W: 43
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ILUB: 26 August 2014
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WillDo #2652579 02/11/16 02:46 PM
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Sitting in the living room with her. She is watching a film (not sharing). We are waiting to watch BBC 4. The session calmed things. We heard each other.

Me: 43, W: 43
M: 16, T: 18
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ILUB: 26 August 2014
Still living together
Re: my wife requests space, deattached from me
WillDo #2652581 02/11/16 02:47 PM
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Dont bring up any relationship talk. Just let things settle down.
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