I agree. Having that come barreling down at you would cause anyone to stumble. Well, not if they were the one wanting it...LOL
You know what I mean. No more snooping. That's our new law. It does us no favors, and keeps us too attached to our H's.
I wish I lived closer, Becky. I'll be here, virtually though. You've got great family. You have a DB counselor. You're a woman of faith and integrity. Go do something fun! Get a manicure, pedicure, massage. What's stopping you?
When H and I first split up, I took every opportunity to check his phone, IPad, computer. Checked his pockets, etc.
One day it finally dawned on me that if I found something it would only hurt me. I couldn't stop him if he wanted to be with someone else. Out of my control. I have spent nights alone at his place and have not snooped at all. Trust me it's hard, but better in the long run.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
Judy, Well right now money is stopping me. I have spent A LOT of money on me in the last 6 months, including a pair of Lucesse boots this weekend! Some people numb the pain with alcohol. I numb with shopping. Oh what fun I've had, but it's time to stop.
I have a feeling my D is about to get expensive.
I do wish we could all have party or share FB pages or something. Oh well.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
Today I finally broke down and got an anti depressant but I'm really nervous about it. I'm just tired of feeling like this. I am exercising, trying to eat well, journaling, praying, taking supplements. But I'm still depressed. And since are not finally starting negotiations it's not likely to get better soon.
My doctor prescribed a low dose of Effexor. She said it's good for depression and overall mood and shouldn't make me gain weight. Like all ADs there are potential side effects. She also said I will need to be on it 6-12 months minimum. I hate that has come to this and I'm so danged mad at H for driving me to it. Ironically it's the same AD he takes.
I'm also bummed that it doesn't mix well with wine. Boo.
I take my first dose tonight. Wish me luck.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
Becky - the AD will likely help with you feeling down. That'll make it worthwhile. I'm sorry that you're not happy about it. Sometimes we all need a little help. I'm beyond grateful there is something out there that helps!!! I've never heard of the brand you're taking, but mine is strong stuff, meant for people who never stop having problems. Yeah, me. Even when I take it, which I do, every day for years, I can still get depressed. I'd hate to see me without it. Seriously. I bet it would be awful.
I'm wishing you luck, but I really think you'll start feeling better, and will be glad you got it. I'm convinced your H is an idiot. I wouldn't leave you! You sound like a lot of fun.
Congrats on the boots! What color did you go with? Any embroidery? I love boots!!!
I wish you could see my FB page. My profile is a picture mine and my two sisters boots. We stood with our toes together. It's a really cool photo. We had fun honky tonking in them.
You are right. I am fun! I have a lot of flaws but I am loyal and smart. I'm a good cook and gardener. I throw a great party. I have pretty blue eyes and great hair. And I love the Lord. (whew, I feel better now)
I stuck with this man through so much trauma and drama. I still can't fathom that he thinks our life was so bad that what he has not is better. He is so lost, and he is definitely and idiot!
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
I like the boots! You can use those for a lot of things. I like the newer, heavily decorated ones - but you're kind of stuck just using them for "dressy events". These will do both!
Thanks for the picture...I really, really love boots. One goal on my bucket list is to start saving when I get a job, so that I can buy myself a pair of Frye's - the boot equivalent of Louboutin's! Have you heard of them?
Frye's are great. Don't have a pair yet. I have about 6 pairs of boots. I'm back.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
