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#2635131 12/26/15 07:18 PM
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Well I survived Christmas. No contact at all with H. I guess I was hoping he would at least text Merry Christmas. The good things is I didn't sit around and wait for it.

I just realized that 2016 is Leap Year, so ladies this is our year!

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H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
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Hi, Beckyb. I think a lot of us were hoping that WH would text but what I saw in your post is that you didn't sit around and wait for it, so for me you are detaching from H pretty well. We have been at our worst this year. Surely 2016 can't be worse than now :-)

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Headed out of town for a few days away and my basement floods! STBX is dealing with it and he's not happy. Whyv do I feel bad? It's still his house too.


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Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
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OMG I want this divorce over with. H is such a self-centered jerk.


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H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
beckyb #2636762 12/31/15 03:57 PM
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Becky, I am glad you are detaching! I hope you are doing something fun for New Years Eve! How is the basement?


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I think basement is good. I hired a clean up crew sight unseen since i am out of town. And paid a fortune.

My sister's and I are going to a concert at the Ryan Auditorium in Nashville tonigh!

I'm not really detached. Just fed up and hurt.

How are? When does your H leave?


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H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
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Life is a constant mixed blessing. I just got back from a fun few days with my sisters and even managed to get a water cleanup company to take care of my west basement while I was gone. H tried to vacuum up the water but couldn't keep up with. (He was most concerned about salvaging his stuff.)

Got home and saw the H move my car out the garage and left it. Went to move it in the garage and it started making a loud noise and shaking and says "Service Stabilitrack" Ugh.
Dealership is closed and I'm pretty sure I shouldn't drive it.

So I'm stranded with my kitty and barely any food. And there is a boil order for water in my area. Good thing I have some bottles in the garage. At least my house did not completely flood like so many others. And I had great people taking care of Bailey and she didn't pee anywhere. Thank you Lord!


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BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
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Wow Becky, you sound very positive for someone stranded in such an annoying situation.
Do you have friends in the area who can give you a ride or help you out with some food?

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Gmumm I have lots of friends and family to help but I'm ok for tonight. I should be able to get the car to the shop tomorrow. It's more of an aggravation than anything.

More good news. The carpet in the basement almost completely dry.

I will survive!


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H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
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Ok, glad to hear it.

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