Honestly, yesterday and today were awful. Cried all day yesterday, and today wasn't much better. Had to go see L bright and early since H is pushing D now. I'm in a weird spot...I don't want to be divorced, but I don't want to be married to H as he is now, either. I'm petrified of the future and don't know how I'm to support myself only able to work part time. Trying to remember "one day at a time", but I'm just so scared.
Have to meet with insurance investigators tomorrow with H to discuss the incident with the car. NOT looking forward to having to rehash all that, especially with H right there.
Prayers, please. I'm feeling so vulnerable and frightened.
Thanks, D. I'm starting to wonder just how long a person can cry...still going. H brought me household inventory papers to fill out. Everything is moving so much faster than I'm ready for, yet somehow I have to find the strength to do it.
Tell your L you are not in the right head space to speed through this. He will ask H's side to slow things down. I had to do that and we put meeting off 6 weeks so I could try and get some closure.
You will get through this and you will be okay. Deep breaths. One foot in front of the other
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
So sorry. Dividing things up is really hard. It reduces the whole M to a list of things. and it really hurts.
I know you're scared but you have shown a lot of strength. I believe you'll get through it. Just keep telling yourself that all this won't last forever.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
Good point. Just because H wants to go fast doesn't mean you have to.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
