WW's exact words after BD, "I could divorce you today and still be friends with you tomorrow."
Early after the BD, my W said basically the same thing. I remained silent and didn't answer because I was thinking on how to respond. Things got in the way, so I never answered. But if she ever does say it again, I will tell her no - I won't be friends...we either will be married or acquaintances only talking because of the children. There is no friend zone here...
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I thought about un-following her on FB, but then I thought I would not be tempted to check up on her if I just unfriended her.
Makes sense to me. The only thing I can think of is if you are open and at some point reconciliation does happen, then keeping her on may be better... If she is like my W, then maybe just un-following her is the best option because of importance attached to unfriending. Who knows.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
