determined to overcome this storm part 2

[MrBond]

It's up to you.

Although all WASs talk the way your H does. Including my W who had an A with her boss. What you decide to do is your decision.

[overcom]

So what do I do. I'm so torn MrBond. Set boundaries, no calling texting emailing, the Sandi's rules right? Go dark?

[Azzork]

Overcom -
is there really a difference in your relationship with your H between today and two weeks ago? So he gave you the papers...they are just that: papers. All they do is register your relationship status with the government. Does that really change anything in and of itself?

So what do you do next? Start from the beginning and DB some more! Look at your situation with a beginner's mind. Then set some goals and start working to achieve them. To help you, yes, follow the 37 rules and set boundaries around you as needed - this will give you the personal space to be able to do these goals without getting sidetracked, distracted or further damaged.

You can do this, O.

[WhyUs]

Many people stop the divorce after the papers have been served. You do not need to use this as your metric in determining the end.

[overcom]

I can do this. So is that what he meant by its only papers??

[overcom]

I really need to save my marriage. I really want to. I will do anything

[Azzork]

I really need to save my marriage. I really want to. I will do anything

You dont need to. You will be OK no matter what.

If youre willing to do anything, it's time to get to work. Start from step 1 and save yourself, O. Thats the best way to give your marriage a chance.

[overcom]

And it will be done. I am going to read the d r book all over again and start from now. Ty so much for your help and advice and encouragement.

[overcom]

Hey A do you know the rules about giving ppl private emails or Facebook or instagram infos??

[overcom]

No more pity parties. No more moping around. Today I will start being confident beautiful person I am... I have God on my side. And all of you supporting me..