Sending you some more hugs and love from the US. I hope this weekend is so restful and peaceful for you giving both your body and spirit a respite from what you've been dealing with.
You're such a strong presence on this board and have helped so many of us through tough times. May you feel peace all weekend!
Big hug,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
V, just wanted to let you know I saw your post on my old thread and responded on my new one this morning. Thanks for your wisdom and support. You are a fabulous lady!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Hello V, I have been reading from a distance, and I hope you are starting to find some wind back in your sails. I think of the phrase darkest before the dawn when I read your latest posts here. You've been through so much. One last hurdle. I can promise that when it is over, and D papers are final, you will feel something different, something free. You are almost there, my friend.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
You are truley are one of the greatest most compassionate lady's that I know the support that you give and the feeling and the love that comes from your posts is unmistakable
V many a time you have pulled me up when I have been close to the floor I for one am extremely greatful
Sending you many hugs (((((((((v))))))))). @--->------
Ghost
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
What is the difference between saying yes because you agree and saying yes because you want to please? What is the difference between beautiful and ugly? When everybody avoids something, Does it mean it must be avoided? How ridiculous all this is!
This mode of thinking takes one far from the ultimate Truth! The crowds are busily involved with their daily routines. As if they are attending a feast, or walking up a beautiful terrace in Spring. I alone am deserted.
The future seems unknown, Just as an infant’s future is unknown. I appear to be tired in a directionless journey.
When everybody appears to have more than enough I alone seem like someone who has lost everything. Is my mind that of a fool?
People in their mundane worlds look bright. I on the other hand look dull.
People in the mundane worlds look clever, I on the other hand look boring.
My mind looks bland, like the open sea, and superficially it looks restless like the wind.
That is how I am.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Thanks for your wisdom and support. You are a fabulous lady!