Thank you for your replies! I completely understand what you are all saying and that makes way more sense then what the book said. I went out with my sisters last night and had a great time. He kept texting me stupid questions and took awhile to reply so that he didn't bring me down. I did let him know last week that I was sorry that he was unhappy for so long and I wished he had expressed his concerns sooner. I took responsibility for my faults and let him know that even though I don't agree with his decision I am not going to make the divorce a difficult process. Since then he texts and calls me constantly. I don't take every call and take time to reply to his texts. What is up with that? He wanted to leave and get a divorce so quickly to make himself happy so why all the attention??
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
This song came on my Pandora yesterday and I believe it will be my new "Fight Song"...
This is my fight song Take back my life song Prove I'm alright song My power's turned on Starting right now I'll be strong I'll play my fight song And I don't really care if nobody else believes 'Cause I've still got a lot of fight left in me
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
My sister is coming over Saturday and we are going to paint my bedroom. I have been wanting to do that for a long time and am very excited to make it girly and pretty and MINE.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
My sister is coming over Saturday and we are going to paint my bedroom. I have been wanting to do that for a long time and am very excited to make it girly and pretty and MINE.
Journal - I have a meeting next Wednesday with the mediator coach before our first collaborative divorce meeting in two weeks. I am trying to type up several time share schedule options to go over with her and it is giving me anxiety. Ugh! I hate this! It is days like this when I get so angry at H for putting me in this position.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
Holy cow - I just read the MLC signs post and I would say 80% of those described H. interesting? Does that effect the way I DB from here on. I think I will go back to that board and read some more. I just was reading it going yep, yep, yep, that is him...
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
Holy cow - I just read the MLC signs post and I would say 80% of those described H. interesting? Does that effect the way I DB from here on. I think I will go back to that board and read some more. I just was reading it going yep, yep, yep, that is him...
No ... MLC, WAS ... does not matter .. we all DB the same.
